Relationship Roundup

Building relationships online and offline boils down to being authentic and generous with your network. This week in the Roundup, there’s advice for brand management and a road test of the latest collaboration tools for your business.

The leadership track – Managing your personal brand and requesting regular feedback are two of the five items recommended to maintain your edge in the workplace. Read the article here: http://bit.ly/WzN0PL.

The business of youThe National Association of Women Business Owners encouraged members and participants of their Annual Women’s Business Conference to be authentic and use who they are to their brand advantage. Read the SmartBrief blog here: http://bit.ly/PCcYBW.

Build with kindness – This author summarizes how the Dalai Lama’s lesson on kindness applies to better business practices. Read the CBS MoneyWatch article here: http://cbsn.ws/TclWqA.

Social media relationships – Trying to figure out what to do with your likes and follows that will be meaningful to your brand? Read the SmartBrief article on building relationships with social media here: http://bit.ly/XoNZ51.

Social collaboration – Looking for an internal social chat tool to foster internal collaboration. This PC World blogger road tests three platforms to consider. Read the blog here: http://bit.ly/S3O8JC.

Kibibi Springs is myGreenlight’s Program & Community Director.

Relationship Roundup

In the roundup this week, a few ideas to bolster your relationship building and personal brand presentation. Get apps to serve up recognition, learn to make the most out of your mistakes, read about the surge in co-shared office space, and master your body language.

Celebrate and reward – Whether engaging your team or fulfilling your commitment to uplift your network, recognition is essential. Read about several apps making virtual praise simple to execute in this Intuit blog: http://bit.ly/Smc8rZ.

There is fortune in fessing up – Rule #1. Mistakes will happen. It takes twice as much energy to try to cover up a mistake than it does to use the opportunity to exemplify authenticity and candor by admitting that it happened. Read how to let mistakes lead to improvement in this Entrepreneur article: http://bit.ly/NRBgGa.

Good timingHubspot‘s recent research on the timing of social media messages provides great tips for your online branding efforts. Read it here: http://bit.ly/QVeqeO.

Craving collaboration? – The rise in entrepreneurs and solo-preneurs has led to the opening of more co-shared office spaces generating a myriad of collaborative opportunities. Read this Harvard Business Review blog about this trend in office design here: http://bit.ly/OrR6Jp.

Master your silent language – The more we can learn to monitor and manage our body language, the more we can reduce the dissonance between our verbal and silent communication. A Harvard Business Review blogger offers tips here: http://bit.ly/UX0iVL.

Kibibi Springs is myGreenlight’s Program & Community Director.

Relationship Roundup

This week in the Roundup we’re amplifying the possibilities for earning greater connection, generosity, and intimacy in your relationships. Learn about the mutual benefits of mentoring, get new relationship action planning tips, see how to be generous with your old iPhone, and more!

The benefits of mentoring: Being generous with your time and knowledge is one of the best ways to expand yourself. This Harvard Business Review blog breaks down the mutual benefits of mentoring. Read it here: http://bit.ly/OczMaX.

The social media pitch: Building relationships in the brand new world of social media is terrain currently being charted. Learn the latest ways to make a good impression online in this New York Times article. Read it here: http://nyti.ms/QCaGhX.

Get better with social connection: Compensation is never a bad thing, but it’s rarely the key motivator that connects people to their organization. A more intimate approach is outlined in this Harvard Business Review blog that can have more positive impact on your organization. Read it here: http://bit.ly/RtJ7fo.

A daily dose of relationship building: Author and marketing inspiration Seth Godin provides a nice laundry list of items that can be used to accelerate your relationship action plans and your business goals. Read it here: http://bit.ly/UoORWI.

Eco-Generosity: I couldn’t resist sharing CBS Money Watch’s article listing several ways to be generous with your old iPhone as you upgrade to iPhone 5. Consider the opportunities to increase the intimacy with someone in your network by sharing functionality and facetime with you on the go. Read their suggestions here: http://cbsn.ws/Up2hlp.

Kibibi Springs is myGreenlight’s Program & Community Director.

Relationship Roundup

Elevate your relationship game with the tips and insights in this week’s Roundup, including how to rally your worldwide network, the art of negotiation, and a new app to help managers give credit where it is due.

Using the multiplier effect – Learn how to maximize your social media conversations in this Word of Mouth blog. Read it here: http://bit.ly/SUEax5.

Rallying your network – Our networks are getting more geographically dispersed but technology is offering new ways to rally the troops. Read the fine points of connecting the dots with a LinkedIn group here: http://bit.ly/NouHuv.

The art of negotiation – This article outlines a more generous, transparent, and authentic roadmap for negotiating. Read the CBSMoneyWatch article here: http://cbsn.ws/RMjyA2.

Empowering language – One of the things that will make you a relationship magnet is being aware of your use of language and its effect on the people you connect with. Culture strategist Chris Edmonds shares the power in “do” messages. Read his SmartBrief blog  here: http://bit.ly/QKjCpA.

Give generous props – A new application aims to help managers track projects and identify opportunities for recognizing employee accomplishments. Read about it in this Springwise article: http://bit.ly/QRsu7t

Kibibi Springs is myGreenlight’s Community Director.

Relationship Roundup

In the Relationship Roundup this week, building blocks to fix your communication, using social media to your visual advantage, improving your time management, and increasing relationship intimacy.

Communication fix: Business relationships can be tricky to manage and require special finesse. Learn how to maneuver a touchy communication challenge in this CBS MoneyWatch article. Read it here: http://cbsn.ws/Rt1Wxk.

Being visually engaging: Many of us are still figuring out the role that visual platforms can play in our social media mix. Expert Ekaterina Walker shares how the new visual landscape can add depth to your online relationship building. Read her Fast Company article here: http://bit.ly/Rn77eb.

Executive timing: We can never learn enough best practices for getting time on our side. Read a CEO trainer’s findings about how the most effective CEO’s manage their workload. Read the Inc. Magazine article here: http://bit.ly/QTytYP.

Long slow dinner without interruptions: I love this company’s creativity and mission to bring attention back to the dining table. Read about their social rehab kit here: http://bit.ly/NYYvPL.

Developing powerful partnerships: Building alliances provides the support we’ll need to reach our ultimate goals. Read one bloggers view on the process for aligning the relationships most important to his leadership goals. Read it here: http://bit.ly/NCpFG9.

Kibibi Springs is myGreenlight’s Community Director.

Relationship Roundup

This week in the Roundup, learn to say “no”, how to mix twitter with business, accepting feedback, knowing when to be assertive, and a new way to onboard new recruits.

The art of the “No”: Learning to strategically say “no” helps preserve your reputation, time, and energy and keep you focused on your primary goals. Read this Thought Leaders, LLC article to refine your strategy: http://bit.ly/OxjOF1.

Tweak your Twitter image: Effectively applying Twitter to your business repertoire requires a little tweaking. Read some suggested minimal changes here: http://bit.ly/QrPvgo.

Feedback your way to success: At myGreenlight, tapping into the feedback loop is not only key to knowing who’s got your back, but also what’s holding you back from your ultimate success. Read this CBS Moneywatch article on feedback and how it can accelerate your progress: http://cbsn.ws/NI9iJv.

How and when to exercise assertiveness: Whether assertiveness is your natural style or not, certain situations require it and certain situations require that it be used with finesse. Read this Harvard Business Review blog on the best practices for inserting assertiveness into your communication style: http://bit.ly/O6v3p3.

Onboard and engage with game play – Companies looking for a seamless way to foster relationships with new employees’ might look into Team Alaya, a gamification platform designed to onboard new recruits. Read more about it here: http://bit.ly/MMYrB3.

Kibibi Springs is myGreenlight’s Community Director.

Relationship Roundup

This week in the Roundup, how to identify and utilize top contacts, invest in yourself, use social media in business, connect through conversation, and build your community.

Relationship planning for success – If you’ve used myGreenlight’s Relationship Action Planning tools, the concept of the “Critical 100” will be very familiar. In this Harvard Business Review blog, authors Ram Charan and Daniel Casse offer the steps for identifying and utilizing the most important 100 people in your organization. Read the blog here: http://bit.ly/MIoTY6.

Investing in #1 – Often our focus on the relationships that sustain us and our goals can lead to neglecting ourselves. This Inc. Magazine article offers advice on carving out the time to invest in your own development. Read it here: http://bit.ly/OGQw3h.

B2B social media – Great tips from Social Media Today on the best uses of the medium for business. Read the article here: http://bit.ly/NxNm5Z.

Connecting with conversation – Every conversation we have is an opportunity to advance a new and important relationship, learn something new, and/or advance a goal. Learn more about how to get the most out of your conversation in this Entrepreneur Magazine article: http://bit.ly/OU0ApJ.

Building your community – As we build our personal and professional brands, we are also building our personal and professional communities. Read this WordofMouth.org blog on managing the fan, follower, and community member relationship here: http://bit.ly/Om3Pq2.

Kibibi Springs is myGreenlight’s Community Director.

Relationship Roundup

This week in the Roundup, how to manage separate social media identities, employee relationship building, confidence in business, and staying relevant on twitter.

Separate identities – One of our modern dilemmas for reputation management involves the decision to create and manage different profiles for different social media platforms. This SmartBlog on Social Media shares the results of a recent poll on the topic and the pros and cons of separate identities. Read it here: http://bit.ly/Ls8EgT.

Building the employee relationship – The foundation of all great relationships start with trust. Learn how to strengthen the relationships important to your business in this SmartBlog on Leadership: http://bit.ly/NzUa1C.

Be larger than life – Big audacious goals require a big audacious perception of self. A Harvard Business School Professor shares lessons from a case study that illustrates the best practices of using confidence and influence to create a big impact in business. Read the HBR blog here: http://bit.ly/Lyr6cq.

Boost the perception of competence – Those who voice an opinion project confidence to others. For some tips for putting your voice into the discussion and gaining greater influence, read the SmartBlog on Leadership here: http://bit.ly/NzsmZS.

Lead nurturing through Twitter – There are new rules for lead generation in the social media stratosphere. Read this Marketo blog for some rules for engagement: http://bit.ly/OZEJhE.

Kibibi Springs is myGreenlight’s Community Director.

Christine Comaford and the Buddhist Principle that Changes Everything

Christine Comaford – author, entrepreneur, coach, and ex-Buddhist monk – has a unique pedigree and an equally unique perspective on leadership. In this excerpt from her Social Capitalist Live Interview, she shares her thoughts on the roles that focus and presence, key Buddhist principles, play.

Christine says:

Focus and presence to me are the foundation of leadership. When you choose to be exactly here, exactly now, there’s a couple of things that happen.

First of all, people feel that you’re aware, they feel that you care. Let’s also think about social media and why it’s so popular. It fulfills this deep need in people to be seen. When you grew up, did you really feel seen and acknowledged as a kid? Probably not. In your daily life, do you feel like people are really deeply, profoundly connecting with you every moment? Probably not, right? The more input we have coming in, the more phones and email, texting and etc., the less present we are. Continue reading

Next Week: Keith Ferrazzi and LinkedIn Founder Reid Hoffman LIVE

On Tuesday, June 12 at 12:30pm ET, join Keith Ferrazzi, CEO of Ferrazzi Greenlight, in conversation with Reid Hoffman, founder of LinkedIn and author of The Start-up of You: Adapt to the Future, Invest in Yourself, and Transform Your Career, at this month’s Social Capitalist Live Event.

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During the lively, 45-minute discussion with audience Q&A, you’ll learn:

  • The backstory: how and why Reid launched LinkedIn
  • How thinking like a Silicon Valley entrepreneur enhances success in any career
  • How Reid personally leverages his LinkedIn page
  • The keys to maximizing your network literacy, the ability to conceptualize, access, and benefit from the information flowing through your social network

…And much, much more! If you can’t make it, register anyway – we’ll send you a recording and transcript afterwards.

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