Go through your phone book, call people and ask them to drive you to the airport. The ones who will drive you are your true friends.The rest aren’t bad people; they’re just acquaintances. – Jay Leno
Here’s a question for you.
When was the last time you gave someone new the chance to move up the ranks to become a true friend? There are no documented promotion criteria to move up the friendship ladder. Sometimes you just have to take a risk and give someone the chance to step up for you.
Your Mission: Look through your to-do list or calendar for an activity/event where you need back-up from a friend. A ride. A recommendation. A wingman for an event. Think beyond your go-to friends and give someone new a chance to be there for you. It might feel like a stretch, but chances are good that he/she will want to help, and just making the gesture to ask can move a relationship to the next level.
Let us know what you asked and how it went.
As they say, “time flies when you are having fun.” They should probably also say, “accomplishments rack up faster than you can update your profiles.” Although that doesn’t sound nearly as poetic.
Go to LinkedIn and update your profile with your latest accomplishments. Make sure it represents you in the best, most current light. Consider keywords and what you want your personal brand to stand for.
Authors John Hagel and John Seely Brown, who recently sat down to record a Social Capitalist Masterclass with Tahl Raz, provide this month’s Master’s Mission, designed to help you diversify your network to expose you to the broadest range of ideas and opportunities. These simple tips will strengthen your safety net – try it!
It is no surprise that we instinctively seek out those who share our interests. This is especially true in times of increasing pressure and uncertainty. We have an understandable tendency in such times to seek out the familiar and comfortable as a buffer against the unforeseen changes around us. In so doing we can inadvertently put ourselves in a cage of similarity that narrows our peripheral vision of the world and our options. The result? We may be even more vulnerable to being blindsided by events and trends coming at us from new and unusual directions.
The Internet compounds this narrowing by invisibly removing subjects and people from our online searches and even our casual exploration of websites, explains Eli Pariser in his new book, The Filter Bubble. Worse yet, we tend to become more extreme and entrenched in our beliefs when we become involved in a tight-knit group that shares them.
The bottom line: the choices we make and the technology we use can progressively narrow the range of experiences we have. To counteract the potential stultifying effects of the filter bubble we will have to overcome our natural instinct to seek out the comfort of those who are most like us. Here are some suggestions: Continue reading
First things first. Happy 2012!
In honor of the introduction of our 3rd Core Course – The Learning Action Plan – today’s mission is all about planning your personal development for this year.
Identify one thing you want to learn this year. It might already be a resolution, or just a thought in the back of your mind. Write it down and spend 30 minutes researching ways to move the needle on that learning objective.
- Identify an on-line course
- Sign up for a live course – continuing education, a seminar, a workshop
- Find a book – buy it or go get it at the library
- Ask around in your network for ideas
- Find a mentor/accountability buddy to keep you moving
In honor of the recent creation of myGreenlight’s Course III, we’re releasing an article from it. Create clarity around your dream career by creating five simple, yet meaningful, lists. Click here to get the article and start on your 2012 goals!
You probably have plenty of experience setting goals. But for whatever reason, you haven’t often followed through. It happens. They weren’t the right goals, or you didn’t have support to keep you on track. Or perhaps your goals changed over time, and now you MUST re-evaluate. Six Steps to Set Your Goals For Success will provide the tools you need to set commitments that matter, and achieve goals with consistency and focus.
Do you have your goals for set for 2012?
Many of you are probably planning to take some time off in the next week or two. Much of that time is likely to be filled with family and celebrations. Think about taking some of your “free” time and spending it with friends and colleagues. Fit in some relationship building activities amidst the holiday bustle.
Your Mission: Schedule some quality time with your contacts during the upcoming holiday weeks.
Here are 5 ideas:
- Schedule coffee or lunch.
- Share a walk or workout.
- Throw an impromptu happy hour.
- Volunteer at a local charity with a friend. Serve dinner, distribute gifts, be of service.
- Invite someone to join you for last minute shopping OR to keep you company in the return lines.
Does the idea of setting goals instantly paralyze you? Have you found goal-setting to be an ineffective way to create real change in your life?
On a recent Social Capitalist call, the author, CEO, venture capitalist, and coach Christine Comaford gave myGreenlighters the following mission to improve their 2012 planning:
Identify needle movers, rather than goals, for 2012.
Needle movers are things that will move the needle forward in your business or personal life – essentially goals that change your life fundamentally. While a goal is binary and can leave you feeling great or defeated, a needle mover ends with you either reaching your target (what you want), the minimum (what you are willing to accept), or a mind blowing result (beyond your wildest dreams!). You won’t always get the exact result you want but you will have moved the needle forward. Continue reading
One of the best parts of this time of year, aside from the opportunities to get together with friends, is the fact that everywhere you turn there seems to be an easy way to help the less fortunate.
Food donations, coat drives, Toys for Tots, the ubiquitous bell-ringing Santa, and an abundance of other chances to give back and be of service are around every corner.
Your Mission: Decide today which initiatives you will support this season and take the first step toward fulfilling that commitment.
One of the key ways that you can show generosity to your network is by connecting people to the contacts and resources that will help move them toward their personal and professional goals.
MyGreenlight needs your help! We are building a resource guide to help future myGreenlight members reach their learning goals. Share your experience and expertise and recommend your favorite learning resource in the comments below.
Books, online or live communities, workshops, courses, apps, etc. Anything is fair game.